Japanese Marriages

Congratulations to Internet Entrepreneur and comrade Joi Ito who recently got married - see their marriage process at his burogu.
This is how my wife and I got married - at the town hall back in London. We are having our 12th wedding anniversary this month *^-^*
While many prefer a traditional wedding, we just wanted something simple like Joi's marriage. What sort of wedding did you or will you have? Simple registration or traditional?
BTW, the video was taken with the Canon 5D Mark II and you can see another one in his heading to Tokyo post. Amazing quality. Amazing price too - more than 3000 USD for the unit alone I think.
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part time illustrationist, doll clothing seamstress
http://puppy52art.com/
awwww congratulations Danny and Waifu :D 12 years how sweet ^O^ I wish you both many many more years to come! :)
http://www.sankakucomplex.com/
Always hoped for something simple, chances are the would-be-wife might prefer otherwise however >_>
University Student
CONGRATS!!!
University Student
The video was amazing. I was literally shocked at the quality.
I just finished taking Japanese Studies course and learned how Japanese Marriages these days work. Apparently most people go into hotels and have their weddings there. The rooms would be built similarly to a shrine type of setting, and "thrusting" the knife into the cake where pictures would be taken for like 30 minutes.
Also the traditional Shinto type wedding, both very exciting in their own ways
Student/Freelance Programmer
I've grown up seeing people having huge traditional weddings. When I saw my sister-in-law in a beautiful white gown years ago, I decided that I wanted to see my wife like that ^^; Although the price tag might make me thing twice >.>;;;
Researcher
I wanted the simpler kind but it turned out to be a bigger thing (well... things happen).
Congrats Danny, our anniversary is this month too.
Dance Trooper: DCX-001 O.D.E. (Order of the Dancing Empire)
http://dannychoo.com.my
*play piano tunes*
Congratulation to both new marriage couple ^_^
Happy 12th anniversary to Danny & Mrs.Choo ^_^
Dance Trooper: DCX-001 O.D.E. (Order of the Dancing Empire)
http://dannychoo.com.my
For my type of wedding, I used to planned for a huge bachelor party & wedding party.
I would hold my party on a luxury tropical island, fly all my honored guests from around the globe onto the island & stay throughout the ceremony.
Well, that's my million dollar dream, which I no longer possess............
Otaku
http://imperiomoe.wordpress.com
Kinenbi Omedetou! Danny
Go-kekkon omedetou gozaimasu Joi San
My wedding was traditional, but we try to keep small and simple as possible, but with a Hispanic family and traditions (similar to Italian, Greeks and others) that's almost impossible there is to much pressure from your families to have something big and noisy. But at the end was relatively small and simple^^.
research student
http://osakacchi.blogspot.com/
Congratulations~ Whoah, 12 years already..
Hmm, I'd prefer to have a traditional one, a small one though.
Your (un)usual student
Omedetto Danny!!!12 years is a very long time...this must be true love..
Poet (not)
Congrats to Danny & wife!
In Malaysia I think people generally prefer a proper wedding ceremony. Even those who register first would have a ceremony later.
Not all go for traditional ceremonies though. Some of my friends had their wedding ceremony Western-style. The more affluent ones could (and probably would) go for both ^^;
Congrats to Joi Ito^^ and Happy 12th anniversary to Danny and Waifu^^
流浪人
Congrats to Joi on the new marriage, and you on the anniversary. ^_^
I had a traditional. The ceremony was nice and short, but the photographs afterward took forever. It hurt to smile after an hour. ^^;
Graphic Design student | Receptionist | Otaku
http://sukidesho.blogspot.com/
Congratulations to Joi Ito on the marriage and congratulations to you on the anniversary ^o^
I have a big family, so having a small but, sweet event may not be a possibility ^^;
It may be a cross between simple and traditional for me, but I'll be content with that >.<
Student, Freelance Artist
http://rhythmemotion.net
Congratulations to the both of you! I'm very happy for both couples :3
Just saw the video; that's some amazing quality right there *3*
Student
http://anime.tedfox.com/
i reckon 80% of readers are nowhere close to the legal age of marriage though hurhur
Photographer/Night Auditor
http://hillbillyotaku.blogspot.com/
As a guy I have absolutely no choice in the matter as to what type of wedding my wife will want.
Congrats Danny on 12 years of marriage.
Hikikomori in the making
http://supermariabros.deviantart.com/
Congrats on the 12 years of being happily together!
I'd prefer something simple for my wedding, I think it's really a hassle to do something big...
Hikikomori in the making
http://supermariabros.deviantart.com/
Forgot to add...
Congrats to Joi Ito and wifey!
Blacksmith
Congratulation for joi marriage and ur wedding anniversary.
Family IT guy ...yes, NEET.
Congratulations on 12th anniversary! ^^
I didn't vote cus my wedding is most prolly.. so many years ahead.
???Confused???
Congratulations on your 12th anniversary Danny! And to many more anniversaries to come!
It's a very important occasion so I think it's better with all the bells and whistles...
One Man Army 一人兵@school
http://www.moonreader.wordpress.com
Omedato to Danny ^^
It will still be many long years before i think of this issue haa =3
Retired programmer, anime lover
Congrats on 12 years. That means you're doing something right.
My wife and I are coming up on our 29th anniversary this summer. We had a traditional ceremony, but I'd as soon gone the simple route.
Student
http://theotakukid.com/
Congratulations on your 12th anniversary Danny!I wish you all the best!
I like the simple ways to get married don't really like to get through all the traditional things that needed to be done. I would like to have is a simple wedding with my wife at a church and then go on a vacation to Rome or Italy to enjoy. That's what I will want in the future :D.
IT Crowd
Traditional for me. While I would have been happy with a simple affair, it was still quite a personal wedding as we didn't have a big guest list. A perfect day!!.
Congrats on 12 years Danny!
Student, part-time Haruhi wannabe (that bit about godhood etc)
http://www.aprilius20.com
Quoting Tougou from School Rumble, "SPACE WEDDING!" XP
CG Artist wannabe / Figure Collector / Deadman
http://uselessthoughts.net/webjournal/
Congrats on your anniversary Danny.
and congrats to Joi Ito-san too.
Tech Support Officer - Network Security Engineer
http://burugureibi.blogspot.com/
so....
what's it like to be married?
especially to a person who approves of what you do for a living/hobby/mix?
Marketer
i would love to see a traditional japanese marriage
student
me too(^_^)
Mechanical Engineering student
http://sabekujikaneda.multiply.com/
My best wishes for your newly-wedded comrade, Mr Danny!
BTW advance Happy Anniversary too XD
What kind of marriage I would have? Like I'll get married someday... Pffft! -_-
IT Manager
http://thumbnail-of-life.blogspot.com/
12 years already ? omedetou, danny !
Daigakusei [Consular and Diplomatic Affairs]
http://dixinfernal.wordpress.com
OMEDETOU!!!
Overman
http://myplasticmoustache.blogspot.com/
Best wishes to the new couple! May they be blessed with happiness in the years to come!
Software Quality Engineer
http://brotherwormgear.blogspot.com/
おめでとうございます!!
My wife and I just got married on 30-Oct at Oosakihachiman Jinja in Sendai. It was a traditional Shinto ceremony. Here is a photo of the shrine:
http://tinyurl.com/688c9c
System Design Engineering (UWaterloo)
http://robostrike.wordpress.com
Keep the family tradition alive ^_^
Office Administrator
http://aquilla429.co.uk
I would like a wedding ceremony somewhere between simple and traditional. I would like the dress and the church and all my loved ones there, but I don't want a horde of bridesmaids and page boys or anything. I also don't want a formal 3 course meal after my wedding either, I want a buffet in a nice, cosy reception hall. I don't want a honeymoon, I'd be happy to stay at home and just cosy on up with hubby.
I'm hoping to get married sometime after my fiance finishes university, however the marriage will have to wait because we want our own house first and buying a house as a first time buyer in the UK can be a very grueling process.
Graphic Designer / Multi-class-worker-character
Simple is the best. All the compromises that a traditional wedding ceremony requires, are unnecesary, I think.
銀河帝国五〇一軍团 TK/TD 8316 M.E.P.D. 軍曹/Droid Hunter
http://gordonator.com/
祝结婚周年快乐。
Designer/Student
I need to get one of those 5D!
still trying to figure it out...
http://pipopaz.wordpress.com/
omedetou Danny!
Mom
http://chatonrose.deviantart.com/
I think I'd like a traditional church ceremony, but no big formal party or anything afterward. Just something simple, casual, and fun after.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/aseps/
congratulations Danny!
university student
http://comica23.deviantart.com
Something between traditional and simple would be nice~ ^.^ Want to dress in a beautiful pure white dress, and then declare our vows to each other, and also have our few most loved noes to celebrate with us. ^_^
congratulations to Joi Ito and best wished to his wife. and to Danny and his wife a warm congratulations to both of you on your 12th anniversary.
IT TechGuy
http://starboykb.blogspot.com
I always wanted to have a simple wedding. But it just the problem with the family and relatives may not like and always wanted a traditional way. I dislike it very much.
Student
>We are having our 12th wedding anniversary this month
Congrats:)
Eleven
Congrats on 12 years.
I would love to get married...i just haven't met this miss suzumiya yet......
Student
http://yellowguy89.blogspot.com/
great videos :)
congrats to the both of you
aspiring to become a doujin and graphics artist cum lawyer
http://aki7.bottled-wish.info
wow 12th~ congratulations danny and I hope you and your wife love each other more :) you're such a wonderful guy and by what you share to us about her, you both deserve each other ^^;
on weddings: I want a simple sea-side wedding at a small chapel
http://flickr.com/people/byakuchan
Congrats on the 12th wedding anni! ^^ As for the question I'd prefer a simple registration, my partner and I are rather practical people and don't want to spend a ton on a lavish wedding.
Looking for work again
http://flickr.com/photos/darktek13/
My first marriage was traditional because of the exwife's request.
Second marriage was registration because of mutual requests from me and my wife.
Executive Seneschal of the Third Ward
http://phaeton99.deviantart.com/
Not married as yet with few prospects, but some sort of traditional ceremony would be nice.... the question is *which* tradition?
Procrastinator, n00b blogger
http://zatsudan.wordpress.com
Being son of a seamstress and fashion designer, I guess I'll have a big, traditional wedding xD
Web Design & Marketing
http://ciaopanda.com
Congrats! ^^
大学生
http://okashi.cloudy-skies.net/
おめでとう! When I was in Japan, I managed to get a glimpse of a Japanese wedding... I think I'd prefer just a simple one myself x_x
Student & Game Designer
http://www.artificialzeromedia.com/
Although I wouldn't marry, unless she wants it badly
Limousine Driver
Congrats on your twelfth anniversary! That's the "Silk" anniversary. Silk is the gift given between couples. Silk roses are a nice gift, or perhaps you could give her something else made of silk?....Use you imagination! All the best Danny. P.S. A simple gathering for me.
Space Pirate
Congrats to Danny and Wife :D
http://animaticfigmation.com/
happy 12th anniversary! my wife and I had a simple registration because at the time we were too poor to afford a traditional wedding, but we're still happily married
Student during the day, otaku at night, and amateur musician ^_^
http://www.thebanzaieffect.com/
Congratulations!
Cheers for more happy years to come. ^_^
Programmer Trainee
http://jointsareokay.blogspot.com
Congrats!!!
As for me, I think I want a modern day marriage...in short, I make it a wedding that only I will have. It won't be the usual traditional wedding, but it's still a wedding
Weddings are such a waste of money in my opinion. I will do as my parents did. Go some place far away with just each other! (They went to Hawaii for 1 month!) and still cost them less then if they had a big wedding. I just hope when I find a girl I want to marry she is fine with that, cause I really don't want a formal wedding. I'm thinking Australia :)
University's Slave
Congrats, you guys!
As for me, I want a registration with a costume party afterwards. And I want chocolate cake, not one of those frilly things.
Ninja / Engineer / Sensei / 魔法少女 (What!?! I can't be, I'm a guy...)
Happy 12th Danny and Mrs. "Danny"!
As tempting as a big wedding sounds, I am a simple person at heart and would much prefer the simple wedding (i.e. like above). Town hall is good enough for me. I just hope my future spouse feels the same way...^^;
大学生
Joiさん、結婚おめでとう!!
http://otakuposts.blogspot.com/
no girl wants to marry me :(
would like a low key affair though when the time comes. just imagining a huge hall filled with people staring at me gives me the creeps.
also congratulation Mr and Mrs Choo on your 12th wedding anniversary. I don't know why its called Silk Anniversary though.
Super Robot Pilot
Congrats!!!
I really want to marry a Japanese girl :D
~Undine~
http://bluebluewave.wordpress.com
I'm not much for marriage myself, if you're happy together and have a commitment, should be plenty, no?
Have been almost married though. ^^;;
BioResearch Assistant
Best wishes to the newly weds!
I'd like a traditional wedding, in a church or basilica with the reception nearby at a reserved large space at a hotel. Then again it's all up to the girl on the details and plans so I can't really say much as chances are she'll have it her way.
Secretary
http://figured.wordpress.com/
Husband and I had a Civil Ceremony. Nice, private and cheap ;)
Dropping computers, starting all over again at Journalism
http://immalion.com
It'll all depend on the lady I guess... marriage simply doesn't mean much to me (the ceremony).
But I do hope it's none of the above. Something a little crazy, I mean.
Mad scientist
When I marry I will have a traditional wedding. Marriage is supposed to last for a lifetime. A registration at a town hall feels like a parking premit or something to me (read: something you can change every year if you like). I imagine that I might offend somebody with that statement and I'm sorry if I did, but at the same time I like to answer the question honestly.
As for the price, it is possible to have a great traditional wedding at a low cost. My parents married just after they bought the house and they had nearly nothing to spend on the wedding. My mom made her wedding dress (you couldn't tell) and they made all the food themselves in advance. The expenses on the day itself was limited to hiring a high school girl (or two, can't remember) to heat/prepare the preprepared food and serve it. The result was great food at low cost (for 30 people) and everybody were happy. It's a myth that a traditional wedding has to be expensive and need live music and stuff like that. The main goal is to gather the whole family for the moment and make sure everybody are happy.
Even if I might have the money for a big wedding I guess I will use the same strategy since money can only be used once and I can imagine other stuff that needs funding too :) (not to mention savings for bad times)
Artist
Congratulations to them and to Danny and his wife. Wow 12 years already. I would like a traditional wedding, though perhaps not in a church.
A person who draws things.
http://larein.deviantart.com/
Actually, I've never attended a wedding before in my life. o_o
I would want a wedding but, nothing too big. Yeah, it's a big important day but, I would imagine the more you have going on the more chaotic it could get.
Apprentice Baking & Pastry Chef
http://Ima-Monogatari.com/
it would be traditional with the works!
weddings are so nice
Wibbling+Writing+Teaching
http://www.kakebuke.net
Congrats to you and Mrs. Choo on your 12th anniversary. :)
I think I'd go for traditional but invite as little people as I could. :>
Student
I think Any is fine as long as both people are happy =)
Pokemon master
http://thecococafe.wordpress.com/
Wow, 12 years! Congratulations!
My views might change when I get older, but right now I think I would want a simple wedding with my closest friends and family as guests. Nothing too flashy.
Your local Otaku Cashier.
If I happen to get married, I want it to be simple, but that decision will be left up to the wife.
Student, ...someday...zzz
BIG BIG BIG!! PARTY!!! Why? Because marriage to me I believe should be a one time thing.
Student
http://www.flickr.com/photos/kmyk88
We're eloping in Hawaii (I'm bringing my parents~ and friends can join if they wanna)
Student artist
http://www.requestview.wordpress.com
I guess danny marriage wont be the other 50 percent
student
http://rinrinne.wordpress.com/
congrats for the newly wed
also congrats for danny and his wife for their upcoming 12th anniversary.
i could somewat image a more traditional wedding ceremony since i am used to being at traditional weddings ~having a large family comes with a lot of celebration~ but I don't want it to be too big since it kinda dulls the actual event that is taking place which is the union between me and my future wife ~i'll find her someday, hopefully, -.-~
Physical Therapist
http://www.flyingpussyfoot.com
Wedding?
I didnt even think about how or when or even with who XD
Actually im scared to death (okay maybe a bit exaggerrated) about mature things like having kids or getting married.I dont wanna call it a nightmare but i somehow think its over with my happy life if one or the other happens.I really like my kiddy way of life and i dont know to me it seems like your losing alot...(you probably gain alot aswell but oh well)
Simply said i dont wanna think about anything like that in my current phase of life.It could be totally different when im 5 years older tough.
Seriously i have no idea.I think it depends on your and your partners wishes if you just register or have a big ceremony
Naye Sayer
http://www.sirbranson.com/
Traditional and Loooong.
Student
http://musou-enrai.deviantart.com/
Congratulations from me too, Danny! Having a nice and simply registration is a great idea and I support it! In fact last week in French class we had a lesson about marriages. I'm far from mine but I would want it to be simple, without making a hustle, boasting and all.
Worker
http://wbd.deviantart.com/
I don't have much to say on the subject, but I do have to say, "Congratulations!" on your 12th anniversary upcoming.
Grats Danny!
As much as I would love to wear a beautiful wedding dress, it's too expensive and I think it's asking too much. I'd be ok with a simple marriage.
Editor
http://cavalock.blogspot.com/
Congrats to all! Been happily married for 5 yrs myself. It was just a simple sat morning registration for us. No wedding dinners or anything like that for us. Me n my wife r from small families, and she's a very practical person. she felt that all those big weddings r a waste of time n money. <^;^> Marrying her was like the one of the smartest thing I ever done.
Engineering student
http://www.kynapple.com
I'm not so fussed by the ceremony, as long it's preceded by my husband signing over his millions to me in the event of his death, and followed by an unfortunate choking-to-death-on-cake incident.
His funeral would be minimal though, got to save those pennies :p