Japanese Marriages

Thu 2008/12/04 10:29 JST
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Congratulations to Internet Entrepreneur and comrade Joi Ito who recently got married - see their marriage process at his burogu.

This is how my wife and I got married - at the town hall back in London. We are having our 12th wedding anniversary this month *^-^*

While many prefer a traditional wedding, we just wanted something simple like Joi's marriage. What sort of wedding did you or will you have? Simple registration or traditional?

BTW, the video was taken with the Canon 5D Mark II and you can see another one in his heading to Tokyo post. Amazing quality. Amazing price too - more than 3000 USD for the unit alone I think.

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  • chun
    chun in need to be in bed (Registered on 2007/01/09)
    part time illustrationist, doll clothing seamstress
    http://puppy52art.com/

    awwww congratulations Danny and Waifu :D 12 years how sweet ^O^ I wish you both many many more years to come! :)

    Thu 2008/12/04 10:47:54 JST (ID #398424)
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  • Quen
    Quen in ニューヨーク (Registered on 2008/08/13)
    http://www.sankakucomplex.com/

    Always hoped for something simple, chances are the would-be-wife might prefer otherwise however >_>

    Thu 2008/12/04 10:56:03 JST (ID #398428)
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  • desuka
    desuka in Canada (Registered on 2008/05/28)
    University Student

    CONGRATS!!!

    Thu 2008/12/04 11:03:12 JST (ID #398433)
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    • desuka
      desuka in Canada (Registered on 2008/05/28)
      University Student

      The video was amazing. I was literally shocked at the quality.

      I just finished taking Japanese Studies course and learned how Japanese Marriages these days work. Apparently most people go into hotels and have their weddings there. The rooms would be built similarly to a shrine type of setting, and "thrusting" the knife into the cake where pictures would be taken for like 30 minutes.

      Also the traditional Shinto type wedding, both very exciting in their own ways

      Thu 2008/12/04 11:07:25 JST (ID #398439)
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  • nya-chama
    nya-chama in London, United Kingdom (Registered on 2007/10/31)
    Student/Freelance Programmer

    I've grown up seeing people having huge traditional weddings. When I saw my sister-in-law in a beautiful white gown years ago, I decided that I wanted to see my wife like that ^^; Although the price tag might make me thing twice >.>;;;

    Thu 2008/12/04 11:05:22 JST (ID #398436)
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  • llorchTHX
    llorchTHX in USA & Mexico (Registered on 2007/09/04)
    Researcher

    I wanted the simpler kind but it turned out to be a bigger thing (well... things happen).
    Congrats Danny, our anniversary is this month too.

    Thu 2008/12/04 11:12:55 JST (ID #398442)
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  • WiseFreeman
    WiseFreeman in DC Cloning Laboratory (Registered on 2007/11/07)
    Dance Trooper: DCX-001 O.D.E. (Order of the Dancing Empire)
    http://dannychoo.com.my

    *play piano tunes*

    Congratulation to both new marriage couple ^_^


    Happy 12th anniversary to Danny & Mrs.Choo ^_^

    Thu 2008/12/04 11:18:06 JST (ID #398444)
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    • WiseFreeman
      WiseFreeman in DC Cloning Laboratory (Registered on 2007/11/07)
      Dance Trooper: DCX-001 O.D.E. (Order of the Dancing Empire)
      http://dannychoo.com.my

      For my type of wedding, I used to planned for a huge bachelor party & wedding party.

      I would hold my party on a luxury tropical island, fly all my honored guests from around the globe onto the island & stay throughout the ceremony.
      Well, that's my million dollar dream, which I no longer possess............

      Thu 2008/12/04 11:31:43 JST (ID #398451)
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  • ceasol
    ceasol in Edmonton, Canada (Registered on 2008/01/08)
    Otaku
    http://imperiomoe.wordpress.com

    Kinenbi Omedetou! Danny

    Go-kekkon omedetou gozaimasu Joi San

    My wedding was traditional, but we try to keep small and simple as possible, but with a Hispanic family and traditions (similar to Italian, Greeks and others) that's almost impossible there is to much pressure from your families to have something big and noisy. But at the end was relatively small and simple^^.

    Thu 2008/12/04 11:20:57 JST (ID #398446)
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  • suicchi
    suicchi in osaka, japan (Registered on 2008/11/22)
    research student
    http://osakacchi.blogspot.com/

    Congratulations~ Whoah, 12 years already..
    Hmm, I'd prefer to have a traditional one, a small one though.

    Thu 2008/12/04 11:21:41 JST (ID #398447)
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  • sonic_of_doom
    sonic_of_doom in Hot and Steamy Indonesia (Registered on 2008/08/21)
    Your (un)usual student

    Omedetto Danny!!!12 years is a very long time...this must be true love..

    Thu 2008/12/04 11:29:10 JST (ID #398449)
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  • The Bard
    The Bard in Dokodemo ii yo (Registered on 2008/03/12)
    Poet (not)

    Congrats to Danny & wife!

    In Malaysia I think people generally prefer a proper wedding ceremony. Even those who register first would have a ceremony later.

    Not all go for traditional ceremonies though. Some of my friends had their wedding ceremony Western-style. The more affluent ones could (and probably would) go for both ^^;

    Thu 2008/12/04 11:29:19 JST (ID #398450)
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  • Mini1-kun
    Mini1-kun in Lost (Registered on 2008/06/10)

    Congrats to Joi Ito^^ and Happy 12th anniversary to Danny and Waifu^^

    Thu 2008/12/04 11:41:17 JST (ID #398461)
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  • tenrou
    tenrou in Honolulu, HI (Registered on 2008/04/16)
    流浪人

    Congrats to Joi on the new marriage, and you on the anniversary. ^_^

    I had a traditional. The ceremony was nice and short, but the photographs afterward took forever. It hurt to smile after an hour. ^^;

    Thu 2008/12/04 11:48:53 JST (ID #398471)
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  • suki
    suki in Cape Town, South Africa (Registered on 2007/08/22)
    Graphic Design student | Receptionist | Otaku
    http://sukidesho.blogspot.com/

    Congratulations to Joi Ito on the marriage and congratulations to you on the anniversary ^o^
    I have a big family, so having a small but, sweet event may not be a possibility ^^;
    It may be a cross between simple and traditional for me, but I'll be content with that >.<

    Thu 2008/12/04 11:58:14 JST (ID #398479)
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  • lene
    lene in San Diego, CA (Registered on 2008/07/29)
    Student, Freelance Artist
    http://rhythmemotion.net

    Congratulations to the both of you! I'm very happy for both couples :3

    Just saw the video; that's some amazing quality right there *3*

    Thu 2008/12/04 12:00:39 JST (ID #398482)
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  • Pyoro
    Pyoro in Singapore (Registered on 2007/08/22)
    Student
    http://anime.tedfox.com/

    i reckon 80% of readers are nowhere close to the legal age of marriage though hurhur

    Thu 2008/12/04 12:01:28 JST (ID #398483)
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  • gregory_gdp
    gregory_gdp in Boise, ID (Registered on 2007/07/16)
    Photographer/Night Auditor
    http://hillbillyotaku.blogspot.com/

    As a guy I have absolutely no choice in the matter as to what type of wedding my wife will want.

    Congrats Danny on 12 years of marriage.

    Thu 2008/12/04 12:03:56 JST (ID #398484)
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  • lostandfound
    lostandfound in Singapore (Registered on 2007/10/21)
    Hikikomori in the making
    http://supermariabros.deviantart.com/

    Congrats on the 12 years of being happily together!

    I'd prefer something simple for my wedding, I think it's really a hassle to do something big...

    Thu 2008/12/04 12:18:11 JST (ID #398495)
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  • Fyuku
    Fyuku in Medan,North Sumatra. Indonesia (Registered on 2008/11/28)
    Blacksmith

    Congratulation for joi marriage and ur wedding anniversary.

    Thu 2008/12/04 12:22:15 JST (ID #398503)
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  • lerry[maru]
    lerry[maru] in Kuala Lumpur, MY (Registered on 2008/09/14)
    Family IT guy ...yes, NEET.

    Congratulations on 12th anniversary! ^^

    I didn't vote cus my wedding is most prolly.. so many years ahead.

    Thu 2008/12/04 12:37:40 JST (ID #398516)
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  • silent1134
    silent1134 in Los Angeles, California (Registered on 2007/08/22)
    ???Confused???

    Congratulations on your 12th anniversary Danny! And to many more anniversaries to come!

    It's a very important occasion so I think it's better with all the bells and whistles...

    Thu 2008/12/04 12:59:51 JST (ID #398526)
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  • moon reader
    moon reader in Singapore (Registered on 2008/11/26)
    One Man Army 一人兵@school
    http://www.moonreader.wordpress.com

    Omedato to Danny ^^

    It will still be many long years before i think of this issue haa =3

    Thu 2008/12/04 13:15:09 JST (ID #398536)
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  • DmiL666
    DmiL666 in Sacramento, CA (Registered on 2008/10/05)
    Retired programmer, anime lover

    Congrats on 12 years. That means you're doing something right.

    My wife and I are coming up on our 29th anniversary this summer. We had a traditional ceremony, but I'd as soon gone the simple route.

    Thu 2008/12/04 13:51:16 JST (ID #398557)
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  • Shockerz
    Shockerz in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia (Registered on 2008/10/12)
    Student
    http://theotakukid.com/

    Congratulations on your 12th anniversary Danny!I wish you all the best!

    I like the simple ways to get married don't really like to get through all the traditional things that needed to be done. I would like to have is a simple wedding with my wife at a church and then go on a vacation to Rome or Italy to enjoy. That's what I will want in the future :D.

    Thu 2008/12/04 14:00:07 JST (ID #398561)
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  • davidc
    davidc in Brisbane, Australia (Registered on 2008/06/27)
    IT Crowd

    Traditional for me. While I would have been happy with a simple affair, it was still quite a personal wedding as we didn't have a big guest list. A perfect day!!.

    Congrats on 12 years Danny!

    Thu 2008/12/04 14:06:27 JST (ID #398568)
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  • aprilius20
    aprilius20 in Malaysia. Physically, at least. (Registered on 2008/10/26)
    Student, part-time Haruhi wannabe (that bit about godhood etc)
    http://www.aprilius20.com

    Quoting Tougou from School Rumble, "SPACE WEDDING!" XP

    Thu 2008/12/04 14:19:51 JST (ID #398583)
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  • samejima
    samejima in Philippines (Registered on 2007/01/10)
    CG Artist wannabe / Figure Collector / Deadman
    http://uselessthoughts.net/webjournal/

    Congrats on your anniversary Danny.
    and congrats to Joi Ito-san too.

    Thu 2008/12/04 14:22:42 JST (ID #398590)
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  • Cyberchaos
    Cyberchaos in Australia, Sydney (Registered on 2008/02/17)
    Tech Support Officer - Network Security Engineer
    http://burugureibi.blogspot.com/

    so....

    what's it like to be married?
    especially to a person who approves of what you do for a living/hobby/mix?

    Thu 2008/12/04 14:24:36 JST (ID #398593)
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  • froggy
    froggy in France (Registered on 2008/11/20)
    Marketer

    i would love to see a traditional japanese marriage

    Thu 2008/12/04 14:25:58 JST (ID #398595)
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  • ar
    ar in A PLACE THAT YOU CAN'T FIND (Registered on 2008/11/16)
    student

    me too(^_^)

    Thu 2008/12/04 14:34:19 JST (ID #398604)
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  • Sabekuji Kaneda
    Sabekuji Kaneda in Parañaque, Philippines (Registered on 2008/06/21)
    Mechanical Engineering student
    http://sabekujikaneda.multiply.com/

    My best wishes for your newly-wedded comrade, Mr Danny!

    BTW advance Happy Anniversary too XD

    What kind of marriage I would have? Like I'll get married someday... Pffft! -_-

    Thu 2008/12/04 14:45:35 JST (ID #398618)
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  • dans
    dans in Chiba, Japan (Registered on 2007/08/05)
    IT Manager
    http://thumbnail-of-life.blogspot.com/

    12 years already ? omedetou, danny !

    Thu 2008/12/04 14:45:53 JST (ID #398619)
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  • duffman
    duffman in the Urban Jungle that is Manila(PH)~ (Registered on 2007/10/30)
    Daigakusei [Consular and Diplomatic Affairs]
    http://dixinfernal.wordpress.com

    OMEDETOU!!!

    Thu 2008/12/04 15:24:20 JST (ID #398645)
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  • R-1
    R-1 in a happy place. (Registered on 2007/07/05)
    Overman
    http://myplasticmoustache.blogspot.com/

    Best wishes to the new couple! May they be blessed with happiness in the years to come!

    Thu 2008/12/04 15:49:36 JST (ID #398657)
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  • wormgear
    wormgear in Chicago (Registered on 2008/02/22)
    Software Quality Engineer
    http://brotherwormgear.blogspot.com/

    おめでとうございます!!

    My wife and I just got married on 30-Oct at Oosakihachiman Jinja in Sendai. It was a traditional Shinto ceremony. Here is a photo of the shrine:
    http://tinyurl.com/688c9c

    Thu 2008/12/04 16:00:25 JST (ID #398663)
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  • Robostrike
    Robostrike in Waterloo, Ontario (Registered on 2008/01/02)
    System Design Engineering (UWaterloo)
    http://robostrike.wordpress.com

    Keep the family tradition alive ^_^

    Thu 2008/12/04 16:12:12 JST (ID #398668)
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  • aquilla
    aquilla in United Kingdom (Registered on 2008/10/22)
    Office Administrator
    http://aquilla429.co.uk

    I would like a wedding ceremony somewhere between simple and traditional. I would like the dress and the church and all my loved ones there, but I don't want a horde of bridesmaids and page boys or anything. I also don't want a formal 3 course meal after my wedding either, I want a buffet in a nice, cosy reception hall. I don't want a honeymoon, I'd be happy to stay at home and just cosy on up with hubby.

    I'm hoping to get married sometime after my fiance finishes university, however the marriage will have to wait because we want our own house first and buying a house as a first time buyer in the UK can be a very grueling process.

    Thu 2008/12/04 16:23:11 JST (ID #398680)
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  • Syrah
    Syrah in Argentina, Buenos Aires (Registered on 2008/06/29)
    Graphic Designer / Multi-class-worker-character

    Simple is the best. All the compromises that a traditional wedding ceremony requires, are unnecesary, I think.

    Thu 2008/12/04 16:29:44 JST (ID #398688)
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  • gordon
    gordon in 新加坡 Singapore (Registered on 2007/06/11)
    銀河帝国五〇一軍团 TK/TD 8316 M.E.P.D. 軍曹/Droid Hunter
    http://gordonator.com/

    祝结婚周年快乐。

    Thu 2008/12/04 16:35:49 JST (ID #398692)
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  • Exile
    Exile in USA (Registered on 2007/10/20)
    Designer/Student

    I need to get one of those 5D!

    Thu 2008/12/04 16:40:04 JST (ID #398695)
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  • pipopaz
    pipopaz in A little place called home (Registered on 2008/08/26)
    still trying to figure it out...
    http://pipopaz.wordpress.com/

    omedetou Danny!

    Thu 2008/12/04 16:40:50 JST (ID #398696)
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  • ChatonRose
    ChatonRose in Illinois, USA (Registered on 2008/10/29)
    Mom
    http://chatonrose.deviantart.com/

    I think I'd like a traditional church ceremony, but no big formal party or anything afterward. Just something simple, casual, and fun after.

    Thu 2008/12/04 16:43:08 JST (ID #398702)
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  • aseps
    aseps in japan (Registered on 2008/08/10)
    http://www.flickr.com/photos/aseps/

    congratulations Danny!

    Thu 2008/12/04 16:44:05 JST (ID #398703)
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  • sheepchan
    sheepchan in daydream land, Portugal (Registered on 2008/03/24)
    university student
    http://comica23.deviantart.com

    Something between traditional and simple would be nice~ ^.^ Want to dress in a beautiful pure white dress, and then declare our vows to each other, and also have our few most loved noes to celebrate with us. ^_^

    Thu 2008/12/04 16:59:31 JST (ID #398714)
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  • marvin
    marvin (Registered on 2006/12/24)

    congratulations to Joi Ito and best wished to his wife. and to Danny and his wife a warm congratulations to both of you on your 12th anniversary.

    Thu 2008/12/04 17:06:55 JST (ID #398720)
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  • Starboykb
    Starboykb in Brunei Earth (Registered on 2007/05/15)
    IT TechGuy
    http://starboykb.blogspot.com

    I always wanted to have a simple wedding. But it just the problem with the family and relatives may not like and always wanted a traditional way. I dislike it very much.

    Thu 2008/12/04 17:14:29 JST (ID #398729)
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  • Harts
    Harts in Estonia (Registered on 2008/06/02)
    Student

    >We are having our 12th wedding anniversary this month
    Congrats:)

    Thu 2008/12/04 17:15:54 JST (ID #398735)
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  • indygo
    indygo in Atlanta (Registered on 2008/04/05)
    Eleven

    Congrats on 12 years.

    I would love to get married...i just haven't met this miss suzumiya yet......

    Thu 2008/12/04 17:33:20 JST (ID #398742)
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  • Jotham
    Jotham in Los Angeles, CA (Registered on 2008/03/08)
    Student
    http://yellowguy89.blogspot.com/

    great videos :)
    congrats to the both of you

    Thu 2008/12/04 17:46:49 JST (ID #398753)
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  • xanthe
    xanthe in Philippines (Registered on 2008/05/03)
    aspiring to become a doujin and graphics artist cum lawyer
    http://aki7.bottled-wish.info

    wow 12th~ congratulations danny and I hope you and your wife love each other more :) you're such a wonderful guy and by what you share to us about her, you both deserve each other ^^;

    on weddings: I want a simple sea-side wedding at a small chapel

    Thu 2008/12/04 17:47:31 JST (ID #398755)
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  • byaku-chan
    byaku-chan in Malaysia (Registered on 2007/08/05)
    http://flickr.com/people/byakuchan

    Congrats on the 12th wedding anni! ^^ As for the question I'd prefer a simple registration, my partner and I are rather practical people and don't want to spend a ton on a lavish wedding.

    Thu 2008/12/04 18:17:37 JST (ID #398790)
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  • darktek13
    darktek13 in Utah, USA (Registered on 2008/02/03)
    Looking for work again
    http://flickr.com/photos/darktek13/

    My first marriage was traditional because of the exwife's request.

    Second marriage was registration because of mutual requests from me and my wife.

    Thu 2008/12/04 18:20:23 JST (ID #398792)
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  • Phaeton99
    Phaeton99 in Momiji Castle, Japones NA (Registered on 2008/11/11)
    Executive Seneschal of the Third Ward
    http://phaeton99.deviantart.com/

    Not married as yet with few prospects, but some sort of traditional ceremony would be nice.... the question is *which* tradition?

    Thu 2008/12/04 18:41:42 JST (ID #398814)
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  • Captain Arepa
    Captain Arepa in Heaven's Branch (Registered on 2008/01/11)
    Procrastinator, n00b blogger
    http://zatsudan.wordpress.com

    Being son of a seamstress and fashion designer, I guess I'll have a big, traditional wedding xD

    Thu 2008/12/04 18:54:38 JST (ID #398830)
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  • adanrico
    adanrico in California (Registered on 2008/12/01)
    Web Design & Marketing
    http://ciaopanda.com

    Congrats! ^^

    Thu 2008/12/04 19:02:48 JST (ID #398839)
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  • Lenners
    Lenners in Vancouver, Canada (Registered on 2008/11/11)
    大学生
    http://okashi.cloudy-skies.net/

    おめでとう! When I was in Japan, I managed to get a glimpse of a Japanese wedding... I think I'd prefer just a simple one myself x_x

    Thu 2008/12/04 19:21:50 JST (ID #398856)
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  • Okita
    Okita in Germany (Registered on 2008/10/28)
    Student & Game Designer
    http://www.artificialzeromedia.com/

    Although I wouldn't marry, unless she wants it badly

    Thu 2008/12/04 19:25:37 JST (ID #398866)
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  • Streetpilot1
    Streetpilot1 in Philadelphia, USA (Registered on 2008/04/02)
    Limousine Driver


    Congrats on your twelfth anniversary! That's the "Silk" anniversary. Silk is the gift given between couples. Silk roses are a nice gift, or perhaps you could give her something else made of silk?....Use you imagination! All the best Danny. P.S. A simple gathering for me.

    Thu 2008/12/04 19:28:25 JST (ID #398871)
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  • Zhar
    Zhar in Norway (Registered on 2008/10/12)
    Space Pirate

    Congrats to Danny and Wife :D

    Thu 2008/12/04 19:30:28 JST (ID #398877)
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  • persocomsan
    persocomsan in Pueblo, CO (Registered on 2008/06/20)
    http://animaticfigmation.com/

    happy 12th anniversary! my wife and I had a simple registration because at the time we were too poor to afford a traditional wedding, but we're still happily married

    Thu 2008/12/04 19:38:41 JST (ID #398891)
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  • Setsukyie
    Setsukyie in Malaysia (Registered on 2008/01/05)
    Student during the day, otaku at night, and amateur musician ^_^
    http://www.thebanzaieffect.com/

    Congratulations!
    Cheers for more happy years to come. ^_^

    Thu 2008/12/04 19:41:11 JST (ID #398898)
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  • Minaru Chou
    Minaru Chou in Philippines (Registered on 2008/09/25)
    Programmer Trainee
    http://jointsareokay.blogspot.com

    Congrats!!!

    As for me, I think I want a modern day marriage...in short, I make it a wedding that only I will have. It won't be the usual traditional wedding, but it's still a wedding

    Thu 2008/12/04 20:24:28 JST (ID #398953)
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  • onnichan84
    onnichan84 in NY (Registered on 2008/03/10)

    Weddings are such a waste of money in my opinion. I will do as my parents did. Go some place far away with just each other! (They went to Hawaii for 1 month!) and still cost them less then if they had a big wedding. I just hope when I find a girl I want to marry she is fine with that, cause I really don't want a formal wedding. I'm thinking Australia :)

    Thu 2008/12/04 20:25:34 JST (ID #398954)
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  • Poofiemus
    Poofiemus in Education Camp, US (Registered on 2008/07/21)
    University's Slave

    Congrats, you guys!

    As for me, I want a registration with a costume party afterwards. And I want chocolate cake, not one of those frilly things.

    Thu 2008/12/04 20:26:27 JST (ID #398956)
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  • spidr245
    spidr245 in Everywhere, Anywhere, and sometimes There too (Registered on 2008/08/25)
    Ninja / Engineer / Sensei / 魔法少女 (What!?! I can't be, I'm a guy...)

    Happy 12th Danny and Mrs. "Danny"!

    As tempting as a big wedding sounds, I am a simple person at heart and would much prefer the simple wedding (i.e. like above). Town hall is good enough for me. I just hope my future spouse feels the same way...^^;

    Thu 2008/12/04 20:36:00 JST (ID #398966)
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  • tintin-san
    tintin-san in シンガポオル Singapore (Registered on 2008/05/11)
    大学生

    Joiさん、結婚おめでとう!!

    Thu 2008/12/04 20:42:19 JST (ID #398979)
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  • 6pack
    6pack in Indo-land (Registered on 2008/03/20)
    http://otakuposts.blogspot.com/

    no girl wants to marry me :(
    would like a low key affair though when the time comes. just imagining a huge hall filled with people staring at me gives me the creeps.

    also congratulation Mr and Mrs Choo on your 12th wedding anniversary. I don't know why its called Silk Anniversary though.

    Thu 2008/12/04 22:20:37 JST (ID #399042)
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  • MazinKaesar
    MazinKaesar in Modica, Italy (Registered on 2008/10/06)
    Super Robot Pilot

    Congrats!!!

    I really want to marry a Japanese girl :D

    Thu 2008/12/04 22:21:27 JST (ID #399043)
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  • Smithy
    Smithy in Neo-Venezia (Registered on 2008/05/20)
    ~Undine~
    http://bluebluewave.wordpress.com

    I'm not much for marriage myself, if you're happy together and have a commitment, should be plenty, no?

    Have been almost married though. ^^;;

    Thu 2008/12/04 22:32:03 JST (ID #399049)
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  • Raz
    Raz in this moment and time. (Registered on 2008/09/02)
    BioResearch Assistant

    Best wishes to the newly weds!

    I'd like a traditional wedding, in a church or basilica with the reception nearby at a reserved large space at a hotel. Then again it's all up to the girl on the details and plans so I can't really say much as chances are she'll have it her way.

    Thu 2008/12/04 22:57:33 JST (ID #399071)
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  • tammie86
    tammie86 in San Jose, CA (Registered on 2008/01/08)
    Secretary
    http://figured.wordpress.com/

    Husband and I had a Civil Ceremony. Nice, private and cheap ;)

    Thu 2008/12/04 23:19:04 JST (ID #399092)
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  • XSportSeeker
    XSportSeeker in Brazil (Registered on 2007/08/22)
    Dropping computers, starting all over again at Journalism
    http://immalion.com

    It'll all depend on the lady I guess... marriage simply doesn't mean much to me (the ceremony).
    But I do hope it's none of the above. Something a little crazy, I mean.

    Fri 2008/12/05 00:49:16 JST (ID #399155)
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  • tymmur
    tymmur in his top secret nuclear bunker (Registered on 2008/01/20)
    Mad scientist

    When I marry I will have a traditional wedding. Marriage is supposed to last for a lifetime. A registration at a town hall feels like a parking premit or something to me (read: something you can change every year if you like). I imagine that I might offend somebody with that statement and I'm sorry if I did, but at the same time I like to answer the question honestly.

    As for the price, it is possible to have a great traditional wedding at a low cost. My parents married just after they bought the house and they had nearly nothing to spend on the wedding. My mom made her wedding dress (you couldn't tell) and they made all the food themselves in advance. The expenses on the day itself was limited to hiring a high school girl (or two, can't remember) to heat/prepare the preprepared food and serve it. The result was great food at low cost (for 30 people) and everybody were happy. It's a myth that a traditional wedding has to be expensive and need live music and stuff like that. The main goal is to gather the whole family for the moment and make sure everybody are happy.

    Even if I might have the money for a big wedding I guess I will use the same strategy since money can only be used once and I can imagine other stuff that needs funding too :) (not to mention savings for bad times)

    Fri 2008/12/05 01:35:19 JST (ID #399184)
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  • Mark Rowberry
    Mark Rowberry in Tewkesbury, England, United Kingdom (Registered on 2008/11/11)
    Artist

    Congratulations to them and to Danny and his wife. Wow 12 years already. I would like a traditional wedding, though perhaps not in a church.

    Fri 2008/12/05 01:42:25 JST (ID #399188)
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  • Larein
    Larein in California, USA (Registered on 2008/10/23)
    A person who draws things.
    http://larein.deviantart.com/

    Actually, I've never attended a wedding before in my life. o_o

    I would want a wedding but, nothing too big. Yeah, it's a big important day but, I would imagine the more you have going on the more chaotic it could get.

    Fri 2008/12/05 02:51:33 JST (ID #399268)
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  • Tasche
    Tasche in Vancouver, BC (Registered on 2008/11/03)
    Apprentice Baking & Pastry Chef
    http://Ima-Monogatari.com/

    it would be traditional with the works!

    weddings are so nice

    Fri 2008/12/05 03:03:09 JST (ID #399281)
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  • kâkebuke
    kâkebuke in Paris, Not Texas (Registered on 2007/12/17)
    Wibbling+Writing+Teaching
    http://www.kakebuke.net

    Congrats to you and Mrs. Choo on your 12th anniversary. :)

    I think I'd go for traditional but invite as little people as I could. :>

    Fri 2008/12/05 03:19:23 JST (ID #399307)
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  • Azndestiny
    Azndestiny in Canada (Registered on 2008/08/28)
    Student

    I think Any is fine as long as both people are happy =)

    Fri 2008/12/05 03:25:00 JST (ID #399315)
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  • Coco the Bean
    Coco the Bean in NorCal (Registered on 2008/01/06)
    Pokemon master
    http://thecococafe.wordpress.com/

    Wow, 12 years! Congratulations!
    My views might change when I get older, but right now I think I would want a simple wedding with my closest friends and family as guests. Nothing too flashy.

    Fri 2008/12/05 04:13:20 JST (ID #399355)
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  • Koji98
    Koji98 in Arlington, Texas (Registered on 2007/11/04)
    Your local Otaku Cashier.

    If I happen to get married, I want it to be simple, but that decision will be left up to the wife.

    Fri 2008/12/05 04:17:45 JST (ID #399361)
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  • JChow
    JChow in Canada (Registered on 2007/09/14)
    Student, ...someday...zzz

    BIG BIG BIG!! PARTY!!! Why? Because marriage to me I believe should be a one time thing.

    Fri 2008/12/05 04:42:03 JST (ID #399380)
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  • kmyk
    kmyk in Vancouver (Registered on 2008/02/18)
    Student
    http://www.flickr.com/photos/kmyk88

    We're eloping in Hawaii (I'm bringing my parents~ and friends can join if they wanna)

    Fri 2008/12/05 05:00:05 JST (ID #399394)
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  • Gibson
    Gibson in California (Registered on 2007/05/27)
    Student artist
    http://www.requestview.wordpress.com

    I guess danny marriage wont be the other 50 percent

    Fri 2008/12/05 06:14:48 JST (ID #399457)
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  • Lyserg
    Lyserg in Utica/NYC (Registered on 2009/03/03)
    student
    http://rinrinne.wordpress.com/

    congrats for the newly wed
    also congrats for danny and his wife for their upcoming 12th anniversary.
    i could somewat image a more traditional wedding ceremony since i am used to being at traditional weddings ~having a large family comes with a lot of celebration~ but I don't want it to be too big since it kinda dulls the actual event that is taking place which is the union between me and my future wife ~i'll find her someday, hopefully, -.-~

    Fri 2008/12/05 13:57:53 JST (ID #399889)
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  • Blowfish
    Blowfish in Close to Dyusseru,Karlsland (Registered on 2008/06/11)
    Physical Therapist
    http://www.flyingpussyfoot.com

    Wedding?
    I didnt even think about how or when or even with who XD
    Actually im scared to death (okay maybe a bit exaggerrated) about mature things like having kids or getting married.I dont wanna call it a nightmare but i somehow think its over with my happy life if one or the other happens.I really like my kiddy way of life and i dont know to me it seems like your losing alot...(you probably gain alot aswell but oh well)

    Simply said i dont wanna think about anything like that in my current phase of life.It could be totally different when im 5 years older tough.

    Seriously i have no idea.I think it depends on your and your partners wishes if you just register or have a big ceremony

    Fri 2008/12/05 16:54:43 JST (ID #400082)
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  • Trystan
    Trystan in LA (Registered on 2008/10/16)
    Naye Sayer
    http://www.sirbranson.com/

    Traditional and Loooong.

    Fri 2008/12/05 20:02:52 JST (ID #400256)
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  • うちは サスケ
    うちは サスケ in Bulgaria (Registered on 2008/10/22)
    Student
    http://musou-enrai.deviantart.com/

    Congratulations from me too, Danny! Having a nice and simply registration is a great idea and I support it! In fact last week in French class we had a lesson about marriages. I'm far from mine but I would want it to be simple, without making a hustle, boasting and all.

    Fri 2008/12/05 23:04:41 JST (ID #400398)
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  • wbd
    wbd in Canada (Registered on 2008/07/05)
    Worker
    http://wbd.deviantart.com/

    I don't have much to say on the subject, but I do have to say, "Congratulations!" on your 12th anniversary upcoming.

    Fri 2008/12/05 23:30:39 JST (ID #400425)
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  • chuachuram
    chuachuram in ChuChu (Registered on 2008/06/16)

    Grats Danny!

    As much as I would love to wear a beautiful wedding dress, it's too expensive and I think it's asking too much. I'd be ok with a simple marriage.

    Sat 2008/12/06 01:32:17 JST (ID #400472)
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  • Cavalock
    Cavalock in Singapore (Registered on 2008/02/23)
    Editor
    http://cavalock.blogspot.com/

    Congrats to all! Been happily married for 5 yrs myself. It was just a simple sat morning registration for us. No wedding dinners or anything like that for us. Me n my wife r from small families, and she's a very practical person. she felt that all those big weddings r a waste of time n money. <^;^> Marrying her was like the one of the smartest thing I ever done.


    Sat 2008/12/06 06:32:27 JST (ID #400742)
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  • kynapple
    kynapple in Tokyo (Registered on 2008/11/24)
    Engineering student
    http://www.kynapple.com

    I'm not so fussed by the ceremony, as long it's preceded by my husband signing over his millions to me in the event of his death, and followed by an unfortunate choking-to-death-on-cake incident.

    His funeral would be minimal though, got to save those pennies :p

    Sat 2008/12/06 14:29:04 JST (ID #401187)
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